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Number 8

November 2023

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The More Things Change…

By Adam Kaplan

The last page of our brochure poses a question that we are often asked: “How has camp changed over the years?” The written response is, “Not much…what’s truly important…the traditions and values of Nebagamon remain the same.” (Full disclosure: those words were written by our predecessors, the Wallensteins, so I guess even in our brochure not much changes!)

I love the constancy of this place. I love that when we sit in the Rec Hall, we are sitting on the same chairs and at the same tables as literally thousands of others before us at Nebagamon. I love that the songs we sing at the end of our meals are the same ones that have been sung for decades after breakfast. (I love that multiple camp directors before me butchered those songs with the same cacophonic aplomb as I do every morning!) I love that every Sunday night we gather at the Council Fire Ring and participate in the same traditions that have been practiced for nearly 100 years – throwing our arms around each other, fighting back tears during poignant Keylogs, and singing the same beautiful songs that have concluded every Council Fire. I have had the true honor, every Sunday night, of repeating the exact same words that have been spoken by each of the three sets of camp directors that have preceded Steph and I. There can be little doubt that the traditions and “sameness” of the place are a large part of its strength, richness, and character.

Maintaining this continuity is an important part of our job as stewards of Camp Nebagamon. Steph and I take our roles, as guardians of this tradition, very seriously. Protecting the history and legacy of Nebagamon is part of virtually every decision we make as directors.

And, we have the benefit of others who are happy to help us protect camp’s traditions. Our campers, staff, and alumni base are a fiendishly loyal and committed group. They zealously work to maintain Camp Nebagamon as the special place that it has been for so long. As is the role of groups like these, when changes are posed, they are met with a wary eye. One of my favorite stories relating to this comes from our very first summer as directors. But first, a little backstory…

For those of you that did not know, despite my having grown up as a camper and staff member at Nebagamon, just prior to becoming the director of Nebagamon, I had been directing a camp in the San Juan Islands of Washington. While there, admittedly, I worked pretty hard to make them more Nebagamon-y, but I also learned some things from them. One of the things I learned was the Ping Pong Ball song, a totally silly song that is a ton of fun to sing. 

So, back to the story…my first year as the co-director at Nebagamon, I started to sprinkle that Ping Pong Ball song into the morning routine. The boys eventually took to the song and recognized how much fun it was. But, in the off-season, I received several scathing notes from alumni warning me not to ruin Nebagamon by trying to change things…like bringing in a new song! By their reckoning, there were to be no Ping Pong Ball songs belted out in the Rec Hall. No way…no how!

Eventually though, as our credibility as camp directors grew and people began to trust that we had no intentions of destroying camp (even if we had a fondness for songs about tiny white balls that clearly endangered young minds), people became much more accepting of new ideas that we brought to the table in an effort to keep camp current. When we built the climbing wall, we were really pleased with the reaction of our camp family. By and large they got behind it and realized that this could become a logical and wonderful part of camp moving forward. The same was (mostly) true when we introduced waterskiing in 2014. So too, when we added mountain biking; it was embraced as a valuable program for Camp Nebagamon. 

And last year, when we announced that Nebagamon was converting to a not-for-profit organization, the announcement was met with enthusiasm and support. 

Two weekends ago, we had Camp Nebagamon’s first in-person board meeting. All thirteen board members traveled to Chicago (minus the one with Covid!) to gather and talk about all things Nebagamon. There was a google executive, a rabbi, a school CFO, an entrepreneur, a not-for-profit marketer, a not-for-profit consultant, a school curriculum expert, a math teacher, a former Nebagamon camp director, and four lawyers (ok…that’s a lot of lawyers!!). All sorts of people, from all sorts of places, with all sorts of expertise…and all completely dedicated to keeping Camp Nebagamon that same special place that we all know…and moving it forward.

It was an amazingly energizing couple of days of meetings, and it reaffirmed my belief in what a special place Camp Nebagamon is. We are all lucky to be a part of this family…

Caretaker Joe’s Council Fire Ring Reno

By Joe Crain

It was another cool and damp month for us here on the shores of Lake Nebagamon. With weekly rain and little sun to be seen, the autumnal glory of the changing leaf colors was not as spectacular as in years past due to the lack of solar illumination. But on the few days that the sun did shine bright for a few hours, it was as if someone had plugged all of the trees in as they blazed forth in their reds, oranges, and rich browns. With all of the moisture in the ground from last month’s record rain fall and the coolness brought on as the calendar flipped to October, the leaves stayed in the trees longer than is usual. But as always, most had fallen to the ground by the time Halloween made its costumed appearance.

The chilly wet weather did keep us indoors for a few days this month but we were able to get out and work on a big project that has been on the radar for a few seasons now. It is a special place in camp where the assembled camp family comes together each week for a meaningful event that can bring boys to belly aching laughter as well as make grown men break down in tears. It’s that one place in camp that wraps up each week of the season with both skits filled with terrible acting and important lessons. It’s a place at camp where all are asked to reflect on the week’s events and thank those who helped us achieve our goals. And just in case someone of you has not yet guessed where in camp I am referring to, it’s the place in camp that serves as the “Keylog” that connects all of the other parts of camp’s goals and ideals together. Yes, that’s right I’m talking about the Council Fire Ring, more specifically the benches and supporting posts. Those of you who have sat on the benches in recent years know that not only are the rather narrow plank seats quite butt-numbing, the sluffing of the hill’s sands toward the bottom rows have made the seats there impossibly short, leaving many on lookers forced to view the proceedings through their own knees! It was time for a refresh.

It was a big job that Caretaker/Cook Cody Keys got started by pulling off all of the old bench top planks as Caretaker Andy and I wrapped up the jobs we were working on. Some came off with ease and others Cody reported were quite the chore being held in place by 4 inch spikes driven into still solid rail road tie posts. But when we all came together for the post pulling phase, Cody had all of the seats off and sorted into the keep-for-reuse and too-rotted-to-keep piles. Next we used an set of old logger’s tongs fixed to the tractor bucket with heavy logging chain and pulled each of the old posts out of the ground. Some were only 20 inches in the ground and popped out more easily, but most where well anchored in place at about 30 inches in the ground. Once all of the old posts were out of the way we graded the site with the tractor bucket to even and refine the slope as well as filling all the old post holes. Now we were faced with the daunting task of digging about 130 new post holes, setting all of those posts both plumb and level to each other in the current row, as well as giving each row its proper bend to give the needed view of the fire ring for all of those seated. Well, after a lot of hard physical work, a bit of debate, some trial and error, the rental of 2 different types of post hole drilling machines and about 3 ½ weeks on a soggy sandy work site, a much improved Council Fire Ring has been completed, ready to comfortably wrap up each week of the camp’s seasons for decades to come. We’re really happy with the results: wider seats, uniform 16 inch seat heights on every row, and all post anchored at consistent depths.

Thinking positive thoughts about the winter to come, having had our first snow of the season just yesterday October 31st, it’s Caretaker Joe At Camp.

News of the Camp Family – November 2023

Compiled by Louis Levin

As a boy, I learned how to camp thanks to Camp Nebagamon, but ultimately, it’s really thanks to my parents. Our Wilderness Tripping program opened an enormous door for me, and my parents held that door open by sending me to camp each summer, well equipped for the journey. Initially, I was a little nervous about going on wilderness trips. I hadn’t done a lot of camping prior to Nebagamon, nor had my siblings, or my father. My mom grew up car camping with her family on looping road trips across the US, but the style of camping taught at Nebagamon was totally new to me. Two vivid memories of my experience with the tripping program stand out — first, I remember Adam Kaplan sitting me down in the Rec Hall to quell my fears about going on a cabin trip in my first few years of camp, from the fear of missing home even more than I already did, to the unfounded fears of what was out there. And, I persevered through the fear to take advantage of the tripping program, learning how to set up my tent and sleeping bag, and make it feel like home for the night. And second, later in my camp career prior to my 8th grade summer, I remember my mom taking me to the outfitter and buying the hiking backpack, hiking boots, and sleeping bag I would take with me on my Isle Royale big trip. The salesperson pointed out to us that the backpack was quite adjustable, and that it would fit me for many years of adventures to come.

That’s the pack!

The salesperson was right. This past month, my wife and I did a 60-mile, seven day backpacking trip on the Tonto Trail in Grand Canyon National Park, and, no joke, I hiked in those same boots, carried that same pack, and slept in that same sleeping bag that my folks gave me as I prepared for my first trips nearly 15 years ago. The boots still fit! I used all the camping skills I learned in my time on trail at camp; how to read a map (pretty necessary on the Tonto!), how to safely filter water (what water we could find in the Arizona dessert…), and how to cook pesto carb, jambalaya, and Vigo burritos. And, perhaps more importantly, I felt comfortable in the wilderness knowing that I had such a strong base of skills from camp to rely on. But it was only with my parents encouragement that I got out there in the first place. Sending me to camp with the gear I needed didn’t just ensure I’d be well equipped for my trips. It enabled me to foster a love of camping that has endured well past my Isle Royale and Quetico trips, to planning big trips of my own.

As we have had to delay the road show for this winter, our main source of news, reunions, has run dry! If you have something to share with the camp family, please send it my way to [email protected]!

IT MAY INTEREST YOU TO KNOW… David Levick is going into his second year of gymnastics, competing in all six events. He and Levi Budin met up recently to go indoor skydiving! Judah Gladstein‘s baseball team, the Redbirds, won the St. Matthew’s Little League Major Championship last week. Harrison Yale starred in his pre-school’s Halloween Play as Ryder from Paw Patrol. He… didn’t love the limelight.

IN THE BIBS AND DIAPERS DEPARTMENT… It’s a boy, Lindsay Kopman, for Lewis Kopman (St. Louis/New York, 2002-’07, ’09-’12, ’14-’15) and Genevieve Yam.

A Big Skal for Amber Burvall!

Those who have joined us at camp over the past decade have gotten to know and love our Camp Nurse Amber Burvall along with her husband, Anders, and three sons Asher, Addison, and Ace. Amber joined us at camp for a summer as nursing assistant in 1999, took an 11-year hiatus from camp, and then rejoined our staff as our head nurse in 2012 – a position she held for the past 11 summers! Amber has informed us that 2023 was her last summer at the helm in the infirmary, and we wanted to take a moment to recognize her for her incredible contributions to camp over her long tenure at Nebagamon.

Those who needed to visit Amber at the Waldorf-Castoria in her time as our Camp Nurse were greeted by her cheery disposition and calm and level-headed approach to handling health needs. Amber juggled a lot at camp, between daily camper medications and health needs and acute issues that required more immediate solutions, and worked tirelessly to get campers back out into camp enjoying their summer. She was an incredible role-model for the dozens of nursing assistants who worked alongside her, and a trusted advisor as we navigated so many health challenges at camp, including the COVID pandemic.

As we set our sights on 2024, we will miss having Amber as our Camp Nurse, and are looking for someone to fill her big shoes next year. Of course, if you think you know the right person for the job, you can contact Adam here!

We are so appreciative of all her and her family have contributed to our greater Camp Family over the past decade of camp – Thank you Amber!

It’s Camp Reunion Season!!! (Sorta…)

By Adam Kaplan

Every year for the past 20 years, on the first of November, I start the reunion tour. I look forward to it as soon as the summer ends!

Unfortunately, this year, my travel season is going to be delayed a bit. Sadly, four weeks ago, I ruptured my right Achilles tendon rushing into a burning building to save a kitten…ok, maybe it was just playing pickleball! If you know anything about this injury, it is a very slow recovery. I will be non-weight bearing for several more weeks and will not be able to drive a car during this time since it was my right Achilles that was affected. Consequently, I have been forced to delay the start of the reunion tour this year until December. (Fingers crossed about that start date!)

To be clear, despite the fact that I will be starting later this year than usual, I am still planning a full itinerary of reunions. I am not going to miss my chance to see the entire country (knocked off my 50th state last year…thank you Vermont!). I’m not going to pass up the opportunity to go to the “IT” restaurants (not great for a middle aged man’s waistline…but boy it is delicious!). Nor am I going to miss the chance to swipe literally hundreds of little bottles of shampoo, conditioner, and lotion from the various hotels where I stay throughout my travels. (And let me publicly apologize to those of you whose homes I have stayed in. You may have found yourselves short of that bottle of shampoo you left in the shower…habit!)

Most importantly I’m not going to miss the amazing reunions! As anyone who has been to camp will tell you, there is just nothing like Nebagamon. The friendships are deeper, the self-confidence fostered is unmatched, the memories are unparalleled, and the sense of belonging is truly unique. So whether you are a current camper, staff member, or alumnus, the winter camp reunions are a wonderful and virtually failsafe way to reconnect to the place, the friends, and the feelings that only camp can create. So I am looking forward to seeing you all there!

Stay tuned for details…

(And in an interesting ironic twist, we just signed a contract to create brand new pickleball courts on the old LJ basketball court! I won’t be playing…)

 

 

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More Enrollments for 2024

New enrollments are coming in for next season – make sure to reserve your spot at camp here!

2nd Grade Campers: Jake Goldstein

3rd Grade Campers: Henry Bader, Aiken Colman, Sammy Firestone, Carter Gray, Dylan Greene, Gage Holloway, Sam Kotin, Josh Wallenstein

4th Grade Campers: Rex Frank, Bernie Goldstein, Henry Hengel, Jack Henrick, Reuben Katz, James Langley, Graham Marek, Max Seidman, Max Strasberg, Elliot Tone, Dylan Wolf, Gray Wyler, Elliott Yarbrough

5th Grade Campers: Ari Barnett, Ethan Barnett, Billy Beard, Darren Bell, Emmett Brown, Jamo Cunneen, Ari Foxman, Will Goldfarb, Wynter Herron, Eli Kauders, Max Kauders, Max Kotin, Ellis Langley, Cole Moscoe, Walt Schiffer, Sam Schwartz, Jasper Teuscher, Benjamin Varon, Alaster Vigness Culhane

6th Grade Campers: Louie Bader, Ronen Brandler, William Brandler, Ben Brotchner, Zach Brotchner, Levi Budin, Ethan Cardenas, Grant Cowens, Nate Feldman, Grant Hall, David Levick, Alex Lyons, Ethan Mack, Mason Marek, Brandon Pineda, Leo Seidman, Bryce Shepherd, Henry Sonneland, Rafi Thacker, Jonah Tone, Mekhi Vante

7th Grade Campers: Jude Alderman, Chase Barnett, Nikolai Bartz Monzo, Henri Beaujean, Max Brine, Josh Desenberg, Charlie Gilligan, Jonah Goldstein, Joshua Goldstein, Max Hesser, Henri Kauders, Elliott Kleiman, Paul Korman, Viggo Levin, Bradley Rittenberg, Lazer Rosenbloom, Owen Showalter, Corey Tapp, Will Temkin, Solzy Wasserman, Preston White, Max Yarbrough, Peter Zeitz

8th Grade Campers: Zander Aronoff, Holden Bell, Zach Bell, Daniel Brick, Felix Calegari, Chris Chiles, Rollie Cohen, Zach Daskal-Koss, Jack Fink, Jake Finkelstein, Gabe Fisher, Evan Friedman, Milo Gilman, Max Goldfarb, Isaac Hamilton, Alex Levin, Alex Mambo, Nathan Massel, Eli More, Hudson Rufi, Grant Shepherd, Brett Sholiton, Sagiv Siegel, Jacob Solomon, Dylan Varon, Owen Walker, Felix Yessian

9th Grade Campers: Ben Bernstein, Aaron Brine, Sam Cohen, Tate Gell, Miles Hall, Charlie Heist, Ari Held, Ben Hesser, Eli Hoffman, Logan Hoffman, Aidan Huberman, Namon Jones, Gibson Kapp, Chase Kornblet, Lev Lippitz, Benjamin Mack, Coulson McConnell, Ryder Meisel, Linus Quinn-Pasin, Danny Schottenstein, Arjun Shah, Hudson Soofer, Judah Thacker, HJ Walberg, Dax Winegarden, Aaron Zelvy

Congratulations to our November Birthdays!

This month’s birthdays include…

November 1st – Tommy Bellaire, Alejandro Rodriguez Jimenez

2nd – Zach Daskal-Koss, Coulson McConnell

4th – Asher Friedman, Digby Karsh

6th – Joe Crain, Gabe Fisher

8th – Hermine Charrier, David Sachs, Isaac Schiff-Lewin

9th – Andy Mack

10th – Ben Hackney, Stephanie Hanson

11th – Felix Popotnik, Johnny Wallach

12th – Hannah Kane

14th – Aaron Brine

16th – Braden Montez, Adena Rosenbloom, Hudson Rufi

18th – Noah Billingsley, Hunter Che

19th – Will Goldfarb, Rome Ryan, Salma Schwartzman, Nora Starhill, Charlie Zeeck

20th – Bill Hensel

21st – Alexa Madrid, Jacob Rolfe

22nd – Jacob Lutsky, Daniel Portillo, Benjamin Varon

24th – Wes Schwartz

25th – Miles Hall, Bowen Mitchell

26th – Charlie Gilligan, GAvin Gray

28th – Sebastian Rorsted

30th – Asher Toback