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Volume XCV

Number 1

January 2023

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Holiday Hullabaloo

By Adam Kaplan

‘Tis (or was) the season once again. The holiday season has just completed its annual massive disruption of our lives. Depending on who you are, and what your experiences in life have been, this time of year is either one that you are passionately excited about or passionately unhappy about. Either you are one of those folks that gets excited about all of the family time, parties, copious eating, gift exchanging, and bright lights, or you get sweaty and anxious even reading about those things in this article! (Yes, I realize that there are folks that lie somewhere in between these two extremes, but it works best for the article if I categorize everyone into these extremes.) No matter what your take on the intense holiday season that we experience annually, there can be little doubt that it affects us all.

My recent trip to the mall and the subsequent HOUR sitting in traffic just to get into the parking lot availed me with a good deal of time to think about the whole concept of holidays in general. While admittedly, the frustration of sitting in my car waiting to enter the parking area did not predispose me to positive holiday feelings, I actually found myself feeling good about the whole idea of holidays.

Holidays can serve as the routine-breakers in our lives. Don’t get me wrong; I am a firm believer in the value of a routine. We are all comforted and stabilized by set practices and routines that we can expect from most of our days. In fact, one of the best ways to help a new camper get past his homesickness issues is to get him settled into the routine of camp life. Once he learns that routine, he is comforted because he understands that things at camp are fairly predictable and operate on a set schedule; he knows what to expect. Having said all of that, if our lives were strictly routine and never varied from that set schedule, they would be boring.

That is where holidays come in. They shake things up. They force us to stop the routine, think about new ideas, and do different activities for a while. This is really healthy for all of us. Taking a break from the routine serves as a sort of punctuation mark in our lives. These punctuation marks give us opportunities…

We pause and look back at what we have done and how our lives have progressed until that point. We take stock in our accomplishments and figure out what we could have done better. These punctuation marks also give us time to think about the future, to plan out how we would like to either subtly tweak our lives or maybe radically change them. Without holidays, without these punctuation marks in our lives, we might get so caught up in the routine and our day to day schedule that we might not take the time to reflect on our lives.

Camp, as a microcosm of life, proves this point as well. At camp, we work very hard to establish a routine early on in the summer. As I mentioned earlier, this routine is comforting to people who are away from home for the first time. And, truth be told, the routine is comforting for the rest of us as well. We like to know what to expect from life. At the same time, at camp we need times when the routine is shaken up a bit. We need events to help us reflect, consider, and plan how our time at camp is being spent. With that in mind, we build “holidays” into the camp calendar. Certainly, every Sunday we have something of a “holiday” and a break in the routine as we settle into our wonderfully reflective Sunday Services and Council Fires. Every Wednesday is also a “holiday” at camp with exciting Cruiser Days. And then we make sure that each session is peppered with other types of “holidays” to keep things fresh at camp. Whether it be Paul Bunyan Day, The Grand Pursuit, the Fourth of July, the Chef’s Cap competition, a visit from A.K. Agikamik, or the Northwoods Invitational (hopefully returning this summer!), the camp schedule is full of these special events. These events not only are a ton of fun for us all, but also help to punctuate our camp season, give us time to take stock of all that is going on, and allow us to fully appreciate how fortunate we all are to have this time at camp.

So…back to the grind and the routine this week. But take heart, National Bird Day (Jan. 5) is just around the corner!

New Year, New Road Show Dates

We’re welcoming the new year, and with it, we’ve got a handful of reunions left on our tour of the nation! See when we’re coming to your city below, and give us a call or check your email for an invitation with specific details — 715-374-2275!

January 8th Minneapolis
January 22nd Chicago
February 5th San Francisco
February 12th Los Angeles

 

News of the Camp Family – January 2023

Compiled by Louis Levin

It’s been said, I couldn’t tell you by whom, that we all become our parents one day. While I think I have a few years before I am totally, undeniably, 100% identical to my father, one thing he’s passed on to me is a love of news articles, and in particular, thoughtfully sending his loved ones articles that remind him of them. This is a lot of lead-up to say: I have an article I want to share with you.

In the publication Vox this past year, Alex Hazlett published a handful of great articles about children and parenting, and the most recent column in his series is on the importance of mentorship and community in a child’s upbringing. In it, he discusses Stephanie Coontz’s new book on the varying influences of family on children, and how relationships with adults who are not a child’s primary caretakers instills different skills, like new kinds of problem-solving skills and ways to form relationships. I won’t summarize the whole article for you, and if you have been at camp before, or sent a camper, I’m not totally sure you even need to read it, because I think you already see the benefits of exposing children to different adults. (Don’t worry about it, though, there are plenty of articles my dad has sent me that I haven’t read!)

At Camp Nebagamon, campers spend weeks away from their parents and, instead, with the mentorship of our counselors and administrators. A camper who may have trouble learning new skills at home might benefit from having a new canoeing instructor, one he looks up to in a different way than his parents or teachers, who has a different style of teaching, or whose classroom is hands-on: hands-on-a-paddle-in-a-canoe-on-the-lake. A camper who might find it hard to form new relationships with peers might find an administrator’s unique advice helpful in discovering things in common with his bunkmates to create deeper friendships. A camper who has difficulty doing chores at home may understand their group responsibilities more when they see responsibility modeled by a cabin counselor who is close in age, and even has chores at home too.

That trope I mentioned about becoming your parents isn’t always painted in the best light; my father also passed on a love of those Progressive commercials about becoming your parents. You know, the ones that make it seem about as un-cool as possible and portray becoming your parents as the worst imaginable fate. I’m too early in the process of becoming my parents to give you a full review just yet, and certainly it’s not all bad. But if the ads have a kernel of truth in them, then I think one of the clearest benefits of Camp Nebagamon is the non-parent relationships that Hazlett and Coontz stress as being so important. Camp is a setting in which campers learn how to be themselves under the careful guidance of a community of mentors who aren’t their parents. That growth is made possible by both the strength of the counselors they’re surrounded by, and the wisdom of the parents who see the opportunity for new community that camp affords.

We have a bunch of news from our December camp reunions to share with you! If you want to share an update with the camp family, send me an email at [email protected]!

IT MAY INTEREST YOU TO KNOW… Seth Starhill and Nathan Starhill are both heavily involved in their club soccer teams out in Boston, while their sister Nora Starhill‘s university ultimate team is ranked 25th in the nation. In New York, Joe Vespry is a two sport star on his school’s soccer and basketball teams, and Sagiv Siegel is playing every position for his travel baseball team. His brother Matan Siegel got a new job on top of his positions on the cross country and basketball teams: he’s a fish monger! He should talk with Theo Schiff, who has been doing some fishing himself. He recently caught a record Iberian Barbel. Edras Duarte is practicing his Karate, and Icarus Vargus got his yellow belt in Judo. Icarus is also a member of his school’s creative writing club. Ryan Mack has caught onto that national craze: Pickleball! (It’s seriously everywhere, right??) We’ve got a lot of runners in New York: Logan Hoffman, Kase Atkinson, and Jasper Braunschweiger are all on their local cross country teams. Kase is supplementing his running with some jumping as well, as he’s been doing parkour this winter. And after succeeding as a part of our Big Brother Little Brother program at camp, Jasper Braunschweiger joined his school’s chapter of Best Buddies where he also has a Little Brother! On top of Jasper Teuscher‘s regular piano practice, he’s been playing a lot of D&D this winter. Ronin Brandler is also big D&D player, and his brother William Brandler is on the chess team — both Brandler brothers are playing on their local flag football teams. In DC, Jorn White is playing ping pong and ultimate, and rows crew for his school. Jonah Tone is the point guard for his school’s basketball team, and Alex Levin is is playing both basketball and baseball. Alex has company on the diamond in DC; Eli Winkler and Emmitt Gerstein are both ball players… sounds like they should try out for the Nats, they could use the help! There are a couple of budding musicians in DC as well; Oliver Strauss has been practicing guitar this winter, and Josh Desenberg is playing trumpet in the school band. Henri Kauders has been helping produce his school’s morning news TV program, and his brothers Max Kauders and Eli Kauders have spent their offseason building some huge Lego projects, and running around on the soccer pitch. Ethan Mack is excelling at both football and soccer, or American Football and football… you get the idea! Simon Kessler‘s cross country team finished 2nd in his conference — he personally finished 1st among 9th and 10th graders! In Dallas, Mason Pedroza has been practicing for Paul Bunyan Day on his local Quiz Bowl team, as well as participating in ceramics and “cooking” club… I guess that’s what they call M.O.C.A. outside of camp? Ari Foxman is a part of his robotics club and is scoring goals for his soccer team. And in Houston, it seems like all our campers are keeping really busy: Henry Kramer is playing tennis, basketball, and wrestling, Philip Slosburg is playing basketball, baseball, and soccer, Reuben Katz is playing baseball, basketball, and swimming, Max Goldfarb is playing soccer, tennis and swimming, Will Goldfarb is playing soccer and swimming, and Arthur Kramer is playing basketball and swimming. Did you get all of that? I see why all our swimmers live in Texas!

Teaching climbing and math have some similarities, right Charlie?

IN THE WHERE ARE THEY NOW DEPARTMENT… Eli Fromm (Kansas City/New Haven, 2006-’10, ’12-15, ’17-’19) is finishing his PhD in mathematics. Bud Schram (Needham, MA, 1954-’59, ’61-’69) serves on the Needham, MA Human Rights Committee, and is involved with the Jewish Big Brothers Big Sisters program of Greater Boston. David Gibbs (Wellesley, MA, 1963-’67, ’69-’71) is working for Jewish Volunteer Services designing leadership programs. Andrew Schram (Chicago, 1994-’99) is an Assistant Professor of Medicine at the University of Chicago. Charlie Fromm (Kansas City/Boston, 2009-’15, ’17-’21) is earning his teaching license from Harvard University in mathematics. Ben Platt (New York, 2011-’16, ’19) is soon graduating from Williams College with a degree in public policy, and working on a masters program in China next year. David Garfinkel (1975-’78, ’82-’83) is producing the upcoming Broadway ballet Sugar Hill: The Ellington/Strayhorn Nutcracker. Simon L’Tainen (Philadelphia/NY, 2010-’16, ’18, ’21) is working for Forget Me Not, an NYC restaurant. Danny Sickle (Chicago/NY, 2009-’15, ’17) is working for Barron International, a hospitality investment bank. Andy Mack (DC, 1973-’78, ’80) was profiled on Voice of America for his company Agromovil, you can watch the profile here. Adam Hirschhorn (LA/DC, 2008-’13, ’15, ’17) is working for Capital One in DC. Teddy Shapira (Chicago/DC, 2006-’12, ’14-’17) is a Law Student at George Washington University. Jon Ringel (Atlanta, 1978-’83, ’85) is working with the American Gastroenterological Association on governance. Danny Hensel (Chicago/DC, 2006-’11) is a producer for National Public Radio’s program Weekend Edition. John Desenberg (Arlington, VA, 1978-’82) is the Principle Business Strategy Analyst at MITRE corporation. Jay Sternberg (Bethesda, MD, 1982-’86, ’89-’90, ’95) is the Senior Director of Marketing for the Global Campus of the University of Maryland.

BAR MITZVAH CONGRAGULATIONS GO TO… Max Goldfarb and Sagiv Siegel

A Window into Caretaker Joe’s Winter

By Joe Crain

As I’m sure most of you who have been to camp would agree, one of the best features of camp’s cabins are their huge and numerous windows. They’re a wonderful feature for a summer-only camp that both allows for great air circulation during those hot summer days as well as an unfettered view of the natural beauty that surrounds us in the Northwoods. And as I’m sure those of you who have been at camp know, with 200 boys running around, we get quite a few holes and tears in the window screens. It’s up to us Caretakers to help patch that new hole that’s just the right size and shape of a football thrown inside a cabin! With few exceptions, the windows in the cabins are at least three feet high and anywhere from four feet up to nearly eight feet wide. The original screens that cover these huge windows were made of galvanized steel, and they lasted quite a long time, but now after so many decades out in the elements, some are now rusty, filled with patches, or have stretched loose at the edges. Unfortunately, the size of the screens and the original installation method make it extremely difficult to replace the screens, so a number of years ago I set out to both start to replace these older, steel screens, and come up with a better and more serviceable method of installing new ones. After studying the job, I came to the conclusion that there were three main issues that needed to be addressed.

  1. The size of the window openings are so large that if a section of screen became damaged, the whole screen needed to be replaced. Considering that a lot of the screens were are close to 3ftx8ft, replacement is both very costly as well as time consuming.
  2. In order to replace a screen, the pull-up window blind, the tracks the blind sits on, and all of the surrounding trim needed to be removed.
  3. If a screen stretched loose at its edges, again the blind and its tracks needed to be removed in order to reattach the loose edge.

To address the first problem, window size, I installed 2” x 4” dividers to break the windows up into sections of 36 inches or less allowing for smaller sections of screen to be replaced when a section was damaged. Not only does this give more staple support to each smaller section, it allows us to preserve the best parts of having such large windows: the view! Thankfully both the second and third problems dealt with the same issue, needing to remove the whole blind assembly every time we needed to replace a screen or reattach its edges. To solve this issue, I wrapped the inside of the window opening with wood strips that I could staple a new screen to without having to remove the blind tracks and all of the trim beneath. So now, when a camper piles all of their worldly belongings on the window sil and stretches that screen out, it’s easy to remove the damaged area and pop in a small section of screen. I trimmed the new screen in such a manner that you can pull the trim for only the area needing repair be it a left portion, a right portion, or on the really large windows the middle section without affecting the rest of that windows trim or installed screen.

And as I’m sure those of you how have been at camp know, there are an enormous number of cabins and screens at camp! I started this replacement project several years ago in the Axemen Village, and that year I was able to get two and a half of the seven cabins completed; The Annex, Axmen 2 and half of Axmen 4. In 2020, with more time for less urgent projects, I was able to complete the replacement of all of the screens in the Lumberjack Village. So, with not much snow on the ground at the end of November I decided it would be a good time to get back to this ongoing project. I knew that it was only a matter of weeks before the snow would accumulate to the point that I would no longer be able to drive into forcing me to spend all of my time inside the shop. So, I figured I’d work on replacing the screens in the Axmen village until the snow depth forced me in for the rest of the winter. I’m happy to report I was able to complete the rest of Axmen 4 as well as Axmen 2 and 3 before the big two-day storm that struck us on December 14th and 15th. That monster storm left camp buried in 16 inches of super wet snow and shut down driving into the Axmen Village for the rest of the winter.

Looking forward to the spring melt, and hoping it comes early enough to finish replacing the screens on the last two cabins of the Axemen Village, it’s Caretaker Joe At Camp.

Camp Nebagamon by the Numbers Quiz

By Louis Levin

How well do you know all sorts of significant (and insignificant) numbers from around camp? Try this month’s Arrowhead quiz below!

More Registrations for 2023

It’s 2023, and registrations continue to roll into our inbox! If you are planning on returning to Nebagamon this summer, please register soon so we can make sure you have a spot for the 2023 season. You can enroll here.

Listed below are the boys who are currently enrolled.

2nd Grade Campers: Henry Bader, Sam Kotin, Aiden Naft

3rd Grade Campers: Sam Bernstein, Rex Frank, Bernie Goldstein, Reuben Katz, Spencer Scissors, Max Strasberg, Elliot Tone, Dylan Wolf, Gray Wyler

4th Grade Campers: Zach Adolph, Ari Barnett, Ethan Barnett, Darren Bell, Emmett Brown,          Jamo Cunneen, Ari Foxman, Will Goldfarb, Ben Hall, Wynter Herron, Eli Kauders, Max Kauders, Max Kotin, Cole Moscoe, Jacoby Naft, Walt Schiffer, Sam Schwartz, Jasper Teuscher, Benjamin Varon,            Judah Wachter, Dylan Wilens

5th Grade Campers: David Apple, Louie Bader, Ronen Brandler, William Brandler, Mattias Braude, Ben Brotchner, Zach Brotchner, Levi Budin, Grant Cowens, Nate Feldman, Sid Grenon, Grant Hall, Mika Halloran, Ben Hoekstra, Eitan Kaminsky, David Levick, Alex Lyons, Ethan Mack, Brandon Pineda, Daniel Portillo, Micah Reiner, Leo Seidman, Bryce Shepherd, Henry Sonneland, Rafi Thacker, Jonah Tone

6th Grade Campers: Jude Alderman, Chase Barnett, Max Brine, Jacob Carlin, Elder Chipman, Owen Deroche, Josh Desenberg, Saul Friedman, Charlie Gilligan, Judah Gladstein, Lucas Goldman, Ben Green, Max Hesser, Walker Karp, Digby Karsh, Henry Kauders, Elliott Kleiman, Paul Korman, Kane Moscoe, August Pereira, Gus Potter, Bradley Rittenberg, Lazer Rosenbloom, Nate Rothman, Owen Showalter, Grant Singerman, Jacob Wallenstein, Solzy Wasserman, Max Yarbrough, Peter Zeitz,

7th Grade Campers: Jake Apple, Zander Aronoff, Holden Bell, Zach Bell, Felix Calegari, Chris Chiles, Rollie Cohen, Jake Finkelstein, Gabe Fisher, Evan Friedman, Milo Gilman, Ryan Glickman, Max Goldfarb, Isaac Hamilton, Landen Hudson, Norbert Isbell, Alex Levin, Nathan Massel, Eli More, Tejay Reddy, Hudson Rufi, Grant Shepherd, Brett Sholiton, Sagiv Siegel, Jacob Solomon, Dylan Varon, Kavi Vishnubhakat, Alistair Wolkoff, Felix Yessian

8th Grade Campers: Athens Aschaffenburg, Ben Bernstein, Aaron Brine, Ace Burvall, Sam Cohen, Nathan Eiserman, Tate Gell, Miles Hall, Charlie Heist, Ari Held, Ben Hesser, Eli Hoffman, Logan Hoffman, Aidan Huberman, Clay Isaacs, Namon Jones, Riley Kaminsky, Gibson Kapp, Eli Karp, Gus Karsh, Chase Kornblet, Max Levy, Lev Lippitz, Benjamin Mack, Avi Maidenberg, Coulson McConnell, Ryder Meisel, Oliver Pincus, Felix Popotnik, Matthew Puin, Linus Quinn-Pasin, Danny Schottenstein, Arjun Shah, Seth Starhill, Judah Thacker, Tanner Toback, HJ Walberg, Johnny Wallach, Dax Winegarden, Aaron Zelvy

9th Grade Campers: Ishaan Balaji, Hunter Che, Asher Corndorf, Evan Friedman, Charlie Goshko, Gavin Gray, Jackson Green, Alex Gudgeon, Nicholas Kallos, Milo Karsh, Nathaniel Kehrberg, Sy Kessler, Jonah Kleiman, Stafford Klein, Stanley Klein, Ben Laytin, Cam Louie, Ryan Mack, Drew Malk, Liam Mann, Mason Pedroza, Noah Penson, Myles Rontal, Sebastian Rorsted, Micah Rosenbloom, Syd Rosenbloom, Jonathan Schiff-Lewin, Dylan Scissors, Logan Segal, Benji Solomon, Asher Toback, Sam Vincent, Sammy Waxelman, Jorn White, Charlie Zeeck, Asher Zipkin

10th Grade Campers: Ezra Maidenberg, Wes Schwartz, Milo Solomon, Micah Stone

Congratulations to our January Birthdays!

This months birthdays include…

Janaury 1st – Amit Cohen

2nd – Judah Callen, Liam Mehrenfar, Gordon Schreiber

3rd – Will Grant

5th – Rafael Buestan Valverde, Jeremy Paz Coy

6th – Bryan Lopez

9th – Alexander Averbuch, Dylan Varon

10th – Aaron Brill, Namon Jones

14th – Sam Cohen, Gus Karsh

17th – Louie Bader, Seth Lambert

18th – Paul Bente, John Bermudez

19th – Micah Rosenbloom

20th – Sam Apple, Max Kotin, Dylan Wilens

22nd – Nelson Mendels, Asher Mendelson

26th – Jacob Carlin, Landen Hudson

27th – Tato Duarte Galvan

29th – Noah Penson, Milo Peterson, Eric Portillo

30th – Simon Hugon

31st – Paula Garcia